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Flip-Flop Fail

by Jackie

I know. We are all excited because we forgot what it was like to leave our house without wincing at the chilling winds. Sunny days are here again! But, before we get all excited, let’s put things into perspective. It’s not officially Spring yet.

I wish I could say I was surprised when I spotted women already sporting flip-flops, but I’m not.  This is your official warning to save your flip-flops for the beach or the weekend. During rush hour on the Metro, you will get stepped on and your pedicure will go to waste, not to mention all of the dirt your feet will collect walking to your downtown office. Yuck.

Plus, since most of us don’t change into our work shoes until we get our desks, flip-flop wearers have to trudge through the office, with the shoe smacking against their foot bottoms making an annoying noise.

Don’t be that girl.  Don’t let comfort be an excuse for sloppiness!

The alternative…


A cute, sleek flat will take you a long way.  Experiment with a bright color to add some fun to your look.

Yellow skimmer, Target.com, $20

Best of A*cute 2009!

Since our launch in April, we’ve been working hard to help you look good at work.  We thank you, our readers, for coming back regularly to see what’s new at A*cute.  Here’s a list this year’s most popular posts.  Make your New Year’s Resolution to be a better version of yourself.  We’ll be here to help look and act A*cute along the way. 

 

 

Nail it…

Grey is this winter's must-have nail color.  It's conservative enough to wear to work, yet funky enough to express your fashionable style.

After a trip to the nail salon, A*cute had to let you all know that your hands should not speak louder than your words.  Click here for the latest trends in nail styling that are most appropriate for the workplace.

 

 

 

 Etiquette is always in style

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Per your in-person and email requests, we outlined appropriate workplace behavior.  According to your messages, some of you may need to forward this post to your cubicle buddies/officemates.

 

 

 

 

 The Right to Bear Arms

First Lady Michelle Obama’s official White House portrait caused a stir in the media and the blogosphere when she chose to sport her toned, bare arms in a classic sheath.  A*cute tells you how to bear your arms the presidential way in this top-rated post.

 

 

 

 Party, Party, Just Don’t Get Wasted

There’s always one office party drunk.  Follow these DOs and DON’Ts so that you can keep your dignity, and your job.

Workplace Fashion No-nos

If you wear miniskirts to work, this post is for you.  If you know someone who shows too much cleavage at work, don’t talk behind her back at the watercooler, send her this post instead.  She’ll get the hint.  We promise.

With that, A*cute wishes you Happy Holidays and we can’t wait to see you in the fashionable New Year!

About Face

When Michelle Edwards isn't teaching her high school journalism students to put their best face forward, she's getting brides and models ready for their close-up.

Special-occasion cosmetics expert Michelle Edwards gives A*cute readers tried-and-true tips to making it with makeup.

Q: What’s the difference between daytime and nighttime makeup?

A: The difference between daytime and nighttime makeup is typically a more subtle versus dramatic approach. Often times, dramatic makeup may correlate with the intensity or amount of makeup being applied or level of bold and courageous color choices.

Q: What are some universal color palettes that work in the office?

A: I like to stray away from the idea that most people can wear and look good in the same basic colors. Makeup should always be considered on an individual basis that regards skin tone, complexion and season. However, warm colors–shades of beige, brown, nudes, and even subtle (not inappropriately shiny) coppers or golds look good on a variety of people.

Q: What do you think about red lipstick at work?

A: Be very careful with red lipstick at work. Makeup should be considered on an individual basis, but know your employer, clientele or audience when you consider things like red lipstick. There are many shades of red and may work well and apply to the standard of a “day look.”  However, red lipstick is usually bright and dramatic and unacceptable for the formal workplace. A good way of determining what’s appropriate is asking yourself if your job is comfortable with you being your vivacious self or would they rather you be a part of a team and blend in. If you’re in a career that celebrates fashion, makeup or music you can push the envelope a little more.

Q: What tips do you have for being bold, yet professional?

A: I think a good way of being bold yet professional is experimenting with something unique for your particular style. Bold can be buying the mascara that’ll make your lashes extra thick and long, or trying fun fresh colors on the eyes. Small things like dark green, purple or blue eyeliner help make a bold statement.

Q: What products do you recommend for the following skin types: oily, combination, dry?

A: Regardless of skin type, it’s important to invest in quality skin care products. Think of your makeup as being a member of a team for your skin. Makeup works on a team with your moisturizer, face wash/scrubs and other skincare routines. Most quality makeup brands have great products that categorize and cater for dry, oily or combination skin.

Q: How long can makeup survive in your makeup bag?

A: Depending on the season and how you care for your products, makeup can last anywhere from six weeks to six months in your purse. Mascara should be replaced every three months, while lipsticks may last up to years if they are properly cared for. I strongly advise keeping makeup somewhere stationary but if you must tote it around, ask yourself why. If it runs or wears off, invest in other products that may help it last longer like a base for your eye shadow or water proof eye liners and mascaras.

Q: What work-related events call for evening makeup?

A: Dinner with co-workers, formal events such as your holiday parties or galas and happy hours are all events that may call for evening makeup.

Q: What is your ultimate makeup no-no?

A: My ultimate makeup no-no is using products on your face that you hope can change what you have. For instance, wearing foundation to make you appear lighter or darker just makes you look foolish. Another makeup no-no for me would be using the stick that comes in many eye-shadow palettes. Invest in quality brushes, it’ll make a world of a difference!

Q: If you only had five minutes to do your makeup, what would your process be?

A: If you only have five minutes to do your makeup, you want to be careful so that it doesn’t look like a five-minute job. If you’re in a rush keep it simple. Mascara, lip gloss and blush should do the trick. (There are rules to blush: Unless your skin is perfect or newly kissed by the sun it requires foundation underneath it.)

Q: What basics should every professional woman carry in her purse?

A: A versatile lipstick/gloss and lip liner, waterproof mascara and eyeliner.

Just say “No”

Manshion.net editor-in-chief Paul Beirne says "dont' do it" when it comes to women's workwear taboos.

Manshion.net editor-in-chief Paul Beirne says "dont' do it" when it comes to women's workwear taboos.

Guest Blogger: Paul Beirne

It is unfortunate–but true–that what we wear speaks volumes about who we are as people. As much as you may want to refute this claim, you must concede that on a number of occasions you have made up your mind about a person before they’ve opened their mouth. The man waiting near you on the train platform, covered in tattoos; not exactly your first pick for an honor student. The young woman sporting the trendy isometric haircut, shaved up the left side; you would never expect her to work in an office, right? Well, unfortunately, these days it seems that some poor decisions don’t just come in the form of a night over the toilet and a good story. Rather, some are the unconcealable badges of past misteps worn proudly by those strolling into work and sitting at the cubicle next to you. The following are examples of the poor choices some women make when selecting their everyday “professionial” (I use the term loosely regarding some of these instances) attire.

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1. The Short Skirt

This little number is all of 12″ long. Wearing this into an office building in my book means one of two things: You’ve been having an affair with the boss and today you’re going to quit because he never left his wife for you. “Get a good look [gestures towards legs].. this is the last time you’ll be seeing these!” Conversely, you may actually be well-dressed for work because your job is to jump out of a cake at the (inappropriate) Christmas party. Ladies, if your skirt isn’t residing in the knee region, you are losing credibility in exponential proportion to each inch further up your leg this “skirt” does in fact end. Don’t even get me started on the long shirt plus a belt equals a dress mathematics some of you employ. With some simple algebra I’ve found that shirt-dress – dignity = hot mess. “Ohh! So you’re saying you’d like me to look you in the thighs when I’m talking to you. Got it. Thigh-contact. Because, ‘Hello–you’re down here.’”

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2. Gaudy High Heels.

The forbidden leopard need not be brought to work. Call me old fashioned, but I think if you walk into the workplace and more than 3 people’s eyes widen upon seeing your shoes, you’ve probably made an error somewhere along the way. Patent red/pink. Florescent colors. They’re for club. Not for crunching numbers. I’m sure there’s cases where you can tone down the rest of the outfit and make some of these work as a nice accent. However, I can’t picture it off the top of my head. Unless you’re working with some really expensive luxury brands, 9 out of 10 times you will look cheap and appear ignorant to proper business attire standards. “Ohhh, so you’re saying you do that erotic dancing workout thing everyone’s talking about these days? N–no? Not just a workout thing? I see. Well, yes the economy is pretty bad these days, I suppose.”

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3. Deconstructed Denim.

Ms., don’t take this the wrong way, but, how dare you. [I don't even pose this as a question because I am not interested in a response]. Casual Friday is privilege, not a right. You are completely exploiting this luxury and offending your co-workers and company at the same time. Seriously? Light-dyed, dirty wash, ripped jeans? “Ohhh! So you came into work today expecting a tailgate party?” Nice. Bang-up job, really. I was thinking of new places to look for work clothes and, shucks, Hollister must have slipped my mind!
Honestly, if you’re going to wear jeans to work, please wear the most dressed-up variation of denim: dark rinse, no frills. A pair of dark skinny jeans and black pumps is a good look that can easily transfer to a classy outing after work.

Visit Beirne’s Manshion.net for the dos-and-donts in menswear.

Dress Code Straight From the HR Department

DC-area HR professional Anthony Frazier points to First Lady Michelle Obama as an example for professional women to follow.

DC-area HR professional Anthony Frazier points to First Lady Michelle Obama as an example for professional women to follow.

Guest Blogger: Anthony Frazier

Women’s fashion is very interesting.  Many manufacturers do not take into account how women truly want to present themselves in the workplace.  The benefit is that they have much more flexibility in being creative and unique (which men don’t) with their attire as long as it is within reason. Women have to be careful because without even realizing it, women’s clothing is designed to attract attention.

The most important thing is to know the environment you are going into.    In a lax environment, a suitable dress, slacks and a well-covered shirt will do. V-necks or swoop shirts should be worn with caution and usually have a top or jacket to go with it.
In a more professional environment, the Michelle Obama look is fine.  Skirt suits and pants suites are fine.  Skirts should always be at least knee-length.  Open-toed shoes can be touchy in very professional environments.
When choosing shirts, button-downs look great, but make sure they FIT around the body.  Sometimes they can be made too tight or too loose and lack the appropriate number of buttons to coverage cleavage.  Keeping a universal top in your office space is not a bad idea.
For the summer months, please keep in mind that you still must have a business presentation.  Just because it is hot does not give you the excuse to bare more.  House dresses, short skirts, tank tops, and other summer items are still not appropriate.  Keep in mind as to what your male counterpart will think.  The objective is to do work, not necessarily attract attention.
Shoes:  Sandals, flips flops, 5-inch heels (if you can’t walk fast in them), are not good footwear.
Among all, when choosing outfits, think about perception and how your colleagues both men and women would perceive you.  Think about client meetings, the attention you want and the message you are trying to convey.

Unwritten rules

“Clothes make the [wo]man.  Naked people have little or no influence on society.”
- Mark Twain

  1. Fashion is never off the clock.  Your appearance matters 100% of the time, even on casual Fridays and at after-work events.
  2. There are no do-overs when it comes to first impressions.  Employers make assumptions about you when they first see you.
  3. If you are in an entry-level position, you are usually the first person a client sees.  They will make a judgment of the company based on the way you look.
  4. Looks matter.  If you don’t take the time to put yourself together an employer will assume that you will not take the time to put forth your best work products.
  5. Sex doesn’t sell in the workplace.  Provocative or inappropriate clothing will get you unwanted sexual attention and block your chances to move up further in the company.
  6. If you have to ask a friend if an outfit is appropriate for the office or not, nine times out of ten, it isn’t.

Workplace Fashion No-nos

If you would not wear it in the boardroom, don’t wear it to work.

DO NOT WEAR…

  • flip-flops.  They look tacky and do not match well with professional clothing.  Resist the urge no matter how decorative they are and opt for comfortable flats.
  • sleeveless tops unless you put a blazer or sweater over it.  Bare shoulders are not appropriate for the office.
  • skinny jeans.  These pants are too tight and too often create muffin topping and plumber rear when sitting or bending.
  • sweatshirts or hoodies.  They belong in the dorm room, not the boardroom.
  • leggings as pants.  They are too form fitting and slightly vulgar.
  • low-cut tops.  There’s no time for cleavage at a 9-5.
  • logo-imprinted clothing.  You can be a walking advertisement on the weekends.
  • miniskirts or skin-tight skirts.  Skirts should not fall above the knee or fit like second skin, even if you are wearing the most opaque tights.

    Miniskirts are for the club, not the office.

    Miniskirts are for the club, not the office.

  • light-colored clothing and bright underwear.  If you have a light to medium complexion, wear beige or tan underwear under pastel or white clothing.  If you have darker skin, opt for black undies.
  • gaudy accessories.  Be modest with jewelery.  It’s good taste to wear one statement piece at a time, but any more than that makes you look too loud.
  • short tops.  Save your midriff for the gym.

    This necklace makes a statement without being loud.

    This necklace makes a statement without being loud.